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Wednesday, March 9, 2011

The Story Of Sam

Sam was a poor kid who grew up in the heartland of America during the time of the Great Depression.

Times were tough and the kid worked hard to help his parents make ends meet.

He would get up early in the morning to milk the cows and sell the milk to his 10 – 12 customers for 10 cents a gallon – a lot of cash in those days. He also went door to door selling magazine subscriptions when he was barely eight years old.

Sam had one good thing going for him – a sharp streak of ambition. His mother always told him that he should try to be the best he could at whatever he did. So Sam always pursued everything that interested him with true passion.

Even as a kid growing up in Missouri, Sam was big on setting bold goals. He was so ambitious that when he become a Boy Scout he took a bet with all the other scouts in his unit that he would be the first amongst them to reach the rank of Eagle Scout. Getting an Eagle Scout badge was no easy task and required a scout to show extreme bravery. Most Eagle Scouts were years older than Sam.

Sam won the bet when as a 14-year-old, he saved a man from drowning in a river.

Little Sam went on to become the youngest Eagle Scout in the state of Missouri at that time.

In high school Sam was elected President of the Student Body and was active in a lot of other clubs too. Despite being only 5’9, Sam joined the basketball team and was delighted when it won the State Championship. Sam also became a quarterback on the football team ñ which went undefeated too.

“Thinking big just came naturally to him.”

Sam’s ambition and positive mental attitude stayed with him as he graduated from high school. By the time Sam got into college he was even entertaining thoughts of someday becoming President of the United States. Thinking big just came naturally to him.

Closer at hand, he decided he should try to be President of the University student body first. So he ran for every office that came along and by the time he graduated college he had been elected president of the senior men’s honor society, an officer in his fraternity, president of his senior class and president of the Bible class. He was also captain and president of Scabbard and Blade, the elite military organization of ROTC.

While doing all this he also ran his own newspaper business and was making $4,000 to $6,000 a year which was at the end of the Depression Era fairly serious cash. “[Sam] was a little scatterbrained at times,” said the circulation manager of one of the newspapers Sam delivered while in College, “he would have so many things going on, he’d almost forget one. But boy, when he focused on something, that was it.”

Sam graduated from college with a business degree and took a job at a J. C. Penney store as a management trainee for $75 a month.

But Sam wasn’t satisfied being a management trainee and soon started looking for other opportunities.

At the age of 27, with a loan from his father-in-law he bought a little discount store in Newport, Arkansas.

Despite initial poor sales and heavy competition from more spacious stores across the street, Sam set a goal ìI wanted my little Newport variety store to be the best, most profitable variety store in Arkansas within 5 years.

Sam worked hard for five years and hit his goal. He soon had the largest variety store in Arkansas. But he didn’t have much time to enjoy his success.

Soon his world came crashing down.

Sam’s lease expired and the owner of his building refused to renew the lease. He knew Sam had nowhere else to go and decided he wanted to take over the store to pass on to his son.

“I felt sick to the stomach,” said Sam, “I could not believe this was happening to me. It really was like a nightmare.”

But Sam wasn’t the type of man to resign so easily.

He and his family moved to a different town. There, in Bentonville, Arkansas, he opened a new store. He remembered overhearing some people comment on his new venture, “Well we’ll give this guy sixty days, maybe ninety. He won’t last that long.”

Well, Sam lasted more than 90 days. And his new store became a success. Soon he began expanding his business and opening other stores throughout the state.

In 1962 at the age of 44 he opened his most ambitious store yet. He called it Wal-Mart.

The rest is history.

In 1985 Forbes magazine called Sam Walton the richest man in America. The kid who had to walk door-to-door selling milk and newspapers had founded what today is the largest company in the world. Wal-Mart made millionaires out of thousands of stockholders, provided jobs for millions of Americans and helped increase the quality of life in many developing countries by reducing the cost of goods.

In 1992, Sam Walton received the Presidential Medal of Honor – the highest civilian award that can be bestowed on an American citizen.

From childhood till the time he died in 1992, Sam Walton had been successful in everything he undertook. It’s hard to place a finger on what qualities make people like Sam Walton successful in so many different endeavors. But in his autobiography he talks about why he believes he was so lucky.

“I don’t know what causes a person to be ambitious,” Sam later said, “but it is a fact that I have been over blessed with drive and ambition from the time I hit the ground.”

He added, “I expect to win. I go into tough challenges always planning to come out victorious. It never occurred to me that I might lose, it was almost as if I had a right to win. Thinking like that often seems to turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy.”

There are several lessons to be learned from this story.

1. Define Clear, Concrete Goals of What You Want to Accomplish
Sam motivated himself by knowing what he wanted and setting a concrete goal within a time-frame. When he opened his first store, he decided that he wanted his store to be “the best, most profitable variety store in Arkansas within 5 years.”

2. Think Big

We create our own limitations. Most of us are guilty of aiming too low rather than aiming too high. Sam Walton dreamt big – even as a kid. With each accomplishment his confidence grew, and his goals became greater and greater. He did not set limits on himself.

When you’re setting a goal, keep this in min:

“A good goal should scare you a little and excite you a lot.”

Think of your current goals and test them against this rule. If your goals do not both scare and excite you – try targeting something a little more challenging.

The mind is the limit. As long as the mind can envision the fact that you can do something, you can do it – as long as you really believe it 100 percent.

~ Arnold Schwarzenegger, world renown actor,sportsman and Governor of California

3. Don’t Let Defeat Get You Down
Sam liked to smile when he thinks of one of his early bosses at J.C. Penney who had told him “I’d fire you if you weren’t such a good salesman; maybe you’re just not cut out for retail.”

He did not let other people’s negative ideas influence him. When he lost his first store he overcame his depression, then packed is bags, moved to a new town and started again.

Perhaps if Sam had not lost his first store and been forced to start new in Bentonville Wal-Mart would not have been founded. Defeat, when viewed from a greater perspective, is often simply a mechanism of setting us on the right path or teaching us a valuable lesson.


4. Desire – Belief – Expectancy

Your goals must meet the criteria of Desire, Belief and Expectancy.

The goal must be something you strongly desire. The greater your desire the stronger your will to pursue the goal. Napoleon Hill said “If your desires are strong enough you will appear to possess super-human powers to achieve.”

Next, the goal must be something you believe is in the realm of the possible. This depends on your belief system. As you accomplish more in life your self-belief grows. This increases your confidence and fuels you to accomplish even bigger things.

Finally, you must expect the end result to occur.

Sam Walton said

I expect to win. I go into tough challenges always planning to come out victorious. It never occurred to me that I might lose, it was almost as if I had a right to win. Thinking like that often seems to turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Expectancy is harder to create. But the tool of creative visualization helps tremendously. Your subconscious mind cannot distinguish between a real experience and an imagined experience. By frequently visualizing the end result you desire you cause your subconscious to accept it to be real. This causes the mind to draw that situation into your life. Perhaps, no one has summarized this point more clearly than Gandhi when he said:

“The man I want to become, if I believe myself to be, I will become”


Sources for this Post:

  • Sam Walton and John Huey, “Made in America: My Story,” (New York: Doubleday, 1992), pp. 3-46.

Friday, January 14, 2011

How to remain motivated despite...

[The following is the best email regarding motivation i recieved from my friend Patric Chan. Enjoy it as i did, YOU will Know Why.]

I've been to dozens of live seminar events in my life where
I have met face-to-face with successful people. One thing that
I can surely tell you is the excitement and energy that I feel at
each event cannot be put into words.

You've experienced that too?

Well, magically, when you are around successful people or
people who have a success mindset, their enthusiasm rubs off
on you.

Contradictorily, if you're around people who are
not successful and don't have high standards for success,
then you ultimately let them bring down your enthusiasm
and energy.

The fact is, there are more negative minded people in this
world than there are success seekers and you can't do
anything about it - and these people can even include
your family, close friends or colleagues!

Perhaps their negativity is a way for them to justify their
lack of success?

Perhaps they try to shield themselves from failure in order
secure their self-esteem?

Who knows.

Of course, if you buy into their mindset, you would never
achieve anything substantial in your life. So if you want to
achieve success, it's important that you limit your
interaction with negative people and start associating
with the "right" enviroment.

Like each time I have conversion with great minds who
are best-selling authors, self-made multi-millionaires and so
on, I've picked up so much knowledge and secrets to success.
They 'force' me to think big, to explore opportunities
that I've never thought of.

I'm not saying that you should end your friendship with a
life-long friend, that would be absurd. I'm just saying that you
should be aware that their negative energy can bring down
your positive energy and that's dangerous.

Basically, great things can happen when you associate with
like-minded people. When you all put your heads together, you
can share what works for each of you. You can meet people
at seminars and form friendships even if you don't live in the
same location.

Now I know that seminars can be cost prohibitive for some
people but you can form friendships with people you meet
online also! The point is, don't limit yourself because of
the demographic restriction you have.

To your success,
Patric Chan

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Napoleon's Key to Victory

The only real measure of business leadership is results. This requires the ability to act boldly with no guarantees of success. The greatest obstacle to overcome is fear of the unknown.

The Key to Confidence
Most fear however, is rooted in ignorance. The more knowledge or skill you have in any area, the less fear it holds. Napoleon Bonaparte is considered by historians to be perhaps the greatest single military leader who ever lived. More than 100,000 books have been written about him since his death on St. Helena.

Pay Attention to Detail
Napoleon's courage was legendary but it was not vain or impetuous. Napoleon was famous for his fastidious attention to detail, for taking pains to study and thoroughly understand every military situation he ever faced. He led the French army in hundreds of minor and major engagements and lost only three, the last one being Waterloo. The more you know about what you face, the lower your level of ignorance, the more courage and confidence you will have naturally. The more time you take to think through a situation, the more capable you will be of dealing with it when it arises. Napoleon planned for every contingency.
Think About the Possibilities
He carefully considered and followed through to its natural conclusion every setback or possibility of defeat he might encounter and then he prepared against it. To be caught unprepared for unexpected setbacks is a mark of weak leadership. Confidence comes from the constructive use of pessimism, thinking about what could go wrong long before it does.

Action Exercises
Here are two ways you can apply Napoleon's strategy to your situation.

First, become an expert in your field. Never stop learning and growing. The more you know, the more confidence you will have.

Second, get the facts. Double check everything. Be prepared for unexpected setbacks and reversals. The more prepared you are, the more confidence you will have.
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